The Standard

The dating app for elites.

Built for quality dating, not quantity.

Join verified professionals seeking authentic connections through video-first profiles and live FaceDates.

Our Approach

Fall for the person, not the profile.

The Standard is built on the belief that anyone looking for a meaningful relationship should be able to find it.

We're designed for professionals who value authenticity over appearances. Every feature—from 30-second video introductions to 10-minute FaceDates—is engineered to help you connect with real people, not curated profiles.

Our triple verification system ensures everyone is who they say they are. Because when you're serious about finding someone special, you deserve to know you're meeting verified, accomplished individuals.

The Standard Experience

How We Do It

Dating that gets you out there.

Video Profiles

Video Introductions

30-second video profiles let your personality shine. No more guessing—see who they really are before you match.

FaceDates

FaceDates™

Skip the endless texting. Schedule 10-minute video dates and discover real chemistry in real time.

Verification

Triple Verification

Income, education, and identity verified. Meet confident knowing everyone is authentic and accomplished.

94%
Match Quality
50K+
Verified Members
$280K
Avg Income
15K+
Relationships

Real Stories

Meet people who met.

"After years on other apps, The Standard was refreshing. I met my partner within 2 months—someone who truly aligns with my values and ambitions."

Sarah M., Product Design Lead at Meta

"FaceDates changed the game for me. No more weeks of texting—you know if there's chemistry within 10 minutes. Found my fiancée here."

James C., Investment Banker at Goldman Sachs

"The verification process sets this apart. Everyone here is serious, accomplished, and looking for something real. Worth every penny."

Alexis L., Senior Attorney at Davis Polk

Ready to find your standard?

Join an exclusive community where authenticity meets ambition. Applications reviewed within 48 hours.

$49.99/month or $399.99/year (save 33%)